People say all the time that it is a horrible to lie. Certainly, it is extremely hard to lie to someone, especially if you have some kind of affection of feelings toward that person. I’ve also learned that this world is not perfect. Sometimes because the circumstances or for the benefits of our own well-being we lie.
Unfortunately, in every single day of our lonely and gloomy lives, there will be situations where we have to lie in order to solve a problem. In most cases we get involved and mixed up in pretty awkward situations by our own decisions and actions. As a result of our lies, the price that we have to pay sometimes is too high and risky. Thus, it hurts other people feelings, especially significant others.
I ask myself all the time if it is worth it to lie. Even though I believe that I’ve should not do it. In fact, I always say that I won’t lie anymore. At the same time, there is a weird voice inside of myself telling me all the time: “shame on you Julian, you know that will never happen. You will be lying the rest of your miserable live, that is something you could never get rid of it.” Every time I’ve heard that voice, a sparkling sensation goes though all my body. Every single muscle in my body get amazed with the felling.
On the other hand, telling the truth all the times is pretty bad for you. In this world full of untruthfully individuals, it is almost impossible to be honest. When you open the doors of your heart to someone that you think loves you. She or he always tries to take advantage toward you in many different ways. For instance, if you have a problem and share it with that person, most of the times that person will not even help you. As a matter of fact, that person will hurt you at your weakest point of your soul and feelings. Plus, he or she will make fun of you. So I guess that saying a lie once in a blue moon is acceptable.
In the end, no matter how good or bad our intentions are, we are lying to each other. Our conscience will always make us feel unhappy and uncomfortable. In addition, personal integrity is the only worth value that every human being has through all his entire existence. We also have to remember that if we lie all the time, we are lying to ourselves, and if we lie to ourselves, we are going to be empty human beings uncapable of loving others, especially ourselves.
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